A New Approach to Homeschool

During our 3+ year journey of homeschooling so far, It has become apparent that Skylar’s best teacher is actually herself. When left to her own choosing, she is surprisingly curious, inventive, creative, and thirsty to learn. Best of all, what she studies sticks with her!

Still, I was hesitant. Student-directed learning isn’t traditional. Some groups call it “unschooling” and some people have very strong and unfavorable feelings about that word. Mainstream isn’t really my jam and many of my life choices have been frowned upon over the years, so choosing to do something “alternative” isn’t really new to me. If I am passionate about anything, it’s advocating for my kiddo. I’ve always said we would continue homeschooling as long as it was a good fit for our family. The flexibility of homeschooling definitely works well for us but I had a sinking feeling that our curriculum-based approach wasn’t the best fit for my girl. So I changed.

By now, you might be wondering what a student-directed homeschool day looks like. They look a lot like life. It also looks a lot like the book If You Give a Pig a Party. One experience leads to another and another and another. It’s the “a spark creates a fire” mentality. My job is to offer materials that will create an interest and then fan the flame and watch her consume that subject/topic/experience. Rinse. Repeat.

There’s a neat method called “strewing” that I’ve been using quite a bit.

Strewing is the art of allowing your child to discover something you have casually left out.

The basic concept is to leave interesting objects, materials, or combinations of things out as a quiet invitation to your child to notice it, touch it, explore it, use it and most importantly, have fun in the process.

There are no rules to strewing, other than to strew widely and diversely.

If I could add one other “rule” for strewing, it would be to strew with no expectations. The whole point is to get a child to bite off on something naturally out of their own curiosity. It shouldn’t be forced or coerced. I put out a lot of things that she never even touches, which is fine. Because when she does find something that interests her, it takes over the day. I love watching her learn with glee!

I’ve been keeping notes in my same little homeschool planner about what we do each day. Much to my surprise, she is still covering all of the major subjects. Yes, including math. Here’s a small sampling of the educational experiences she’s had in the last few weeks.

• Researched chickens and wrote a report on her findings.
• Learned about the different types of dinosaurs and created her own flip book.
• Played with Snap Circuits.
• Read countless fiction books.
• Studied George Washington Carver.
• Completed two Life of Fred Mathematics books.
• Did a Geometry workbook.
• Cooked dinner for us.
• Read poetry.
• Animal husbandry (chickens, dogs, birds, turtles, butterflies).
• Created her own essential oil tick spray.
• Lots of crafts & art projects.
• Decided she wanted a gerbil and has been using fun facts to try and persuade me. Daily.
• Working her way through a book of at-home science experiments.
• Planted seeds in the greenhouse with our neighbor and has been checking the sprouts regularly.
• Egg drop construction contest.
• Watched a documentary on abstract art.
• Taught herself how to play several songs out of an old piano book.

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6. How Self-Directed Learning Can Benefit Every Student